As much as I fall madly in love with someone it’s hard for me to picture my ‘forever and always’ as the rest of my life, like 30, 40, 50 years from now. That’s a really long long time (that’s longer than I’ve been alive!)… It’s not that I don’t want to end my days by the side of someone special, looking back at what we built together – yes, I want a happy life and also a lovely family -, but since I tend to be kinda selfish about my future and also get tired of things quite easily, I believe the certainty one needs to take a major step like that is still a bit down the road for me. Plus, no one should get married just for the dress (and the shoes!) and the party, right? Right.
Either way, I may not like to attend weddings much, but I like to get inspired, ’cause just because I don’t want it for me that doesn’t mean I can’t give my friends who do (hopefully) a hand.
I can be a quite hard to please bitch, sometimes. I am. I am a perfectionist, and these things aren’t birthdays you have every year – this is supposed to be a once in a life time thing, so everything should be perfect (and that’s why so many women turn into bridezillas when preparing their weddings).
Well, let’s leave out the perfect dress, and let’s focus on one other thing that I am yet to be pleased about from whatever I’ve seen in all the weddings I’ve attended: the pictures. A lot of people believe they can be wedding photographers… A lot of people don’t have a clue about what they’re doing, which is so sad, because instead of telling a story, most wedding pictures are just plain boring (and also dreadful at times) – and worst of all: irreplaceable.
And then there are these…